Japanese Wedding in Tuscany

Japanese weddings Traditions

Originally the wedding in Japan was one of most beautiful events you could see but nowadays it has been transformed in a commercial show. In the 10th century, the groom went to the bride’s home and, the third night ate some sweets which meant he was become part of the family. Later on, in the warriors society the bride wore a white dress and went to the groom’s home where there was a big feast and where the couple drank three sake glasses. Starting from the 16th century wedding ceremonies began to be held during the day in order to show everybody the richness and beauty of the celebration.

Weddings were celebrated in Shinto style which is the indigenous faith of the Japanese people and as old as Japan herself. Starting from the 20th century, the wedding is becoming a very important event which involves hotels, photographers, shops for flowers, gown and so on. Many western elements have been introduced, such as the cutting of the cake, the exchange of rings, the bouquet. Couples in Japan enjoy weaving both the ritual of Japanese wedding tradition with modern Western culture Nowadays, this shrine may be located inside the hotel where the festivities take place. Only the close family is present during the ceremony, that is conducted by a Shinto priest. During the ceremony, the couple is purified, drinks sake, and the groom reads the words of commitment. At last, symbolic offerings are given to the kami. The couple is dressed in traditional kimono.

After the ceremony, the couple welcomes all the guests, and the reception party is held. Usually the party is visited by about 20 to 200 guests among whom are relatives, friends, co-workers and bosses of the bride and groom. The party normally starts with the introductions of the bride and groom. Afterwards, a meal is held and several guests make contributions such as speeches, songs and the like. During the whole celebrations, the groom and especially the bride may change their dresses several times. At the very end of the party, the couple will speech to all the guests and thank everybody